There is no need to wonder if it is worthwhile to love someone because love is a one-way street. In actuality, many men and women desire their partners to live according to their own needs, believing that this is true love for themselves. That sort of love, in my opinion, is selfish love; love is free; you should be independent and connected with one another; and only by tolerating each other in life can you live a long time.
So, what is it actually like to be in love? Well, speaking from a man’s perspective, when a man is in love, whether requited or unrequited, he will guide you when you go astray. When you have an unhealthy lifestyle, studying makes you nauseous, a dispute with your parents or friends, and distance yourself from everyone, he will listen to all your problems while also making you understand your faults. He will be there for you when you needed him the most even if you don’t ask for his help but he will understand. He is your friend and mentor you know you can count on him for guidance, and the greatest thing is that he has the courage to call a spade a spade and show you the light at the end of the tunnel.
When you both had a fight, he would not end the relationship due to your arguments. When a man sincerely loves his girlfriend, he will endeavour to reconcile their relationship’s problems. Fights or disagreements are a way for him to settle their issues. He will not exploit conflicts to break the relationship. Arguments are a natural part of every relationship; no couple is without them. Therefore, we can judge whether we love or not by a quarrel, but by the attitude after the quarrel. For example, two people may clash furiously, but as soon as they turn around, both will take the effort to apologize. It is very likely that it is not the other’s fault. This is the expression of loving someone. On the other hand, if the other party does not consider whether she did something wrong or not. This indicates she has a very low self-awareness or simply doesn’t care for you, and the relationship will not last long no matter how much you make the effort.
He has seen your dark side and yet loves you. He was there for you through thick and thin. He will also be there for you if you are unable to conceive due to infertility. You could tell him anything without fear of being judged. He knows everything about you, from your greatest fears to your deepest insecurities, and he still adores you immensely.
He accepts you as you are and does not attempt to change you. Nobody is the same, and that is what makes them unique. A man who genuinely loves you would accept you just as you are. Your imperfections don’t matter since no one is flawless. He doesn’t care if you earn or not if you’re fat or skinny. He adores you and your flaws and will never attempt to alter you for anything.
He’ll be the sort of guy with whom you can chat about anything, even if you’re bashful. He is always available to talk about your day or anything else that comes to mind. Even if he is busy, he will gently tell you that he will come back to you after completing his current chores at hand. In his hectic schedule, he always makes room for your last-minute plan. You know you’re his priority, but you also know how to strike the proper balance between his personal and professional lives.
When a man is truly in love with his girlfriend, he is concerned with both the present and the future. Whether it’s a random talk about whether purchasing a home together, having children, or ultimate settlement will be in the nation where they live or overseas, he would involve you in all of his plans and make the decision together. He will seek your advice anytime when he makes a critical decision. Seeking your guidance on important personal and professional problems is his way of expressing gratitude for your role in his life. This indicates that he regards you as a partner with whom he may discuss his issues and accomplishments. As a result, your opinion is really important. If he consults you before quitting his work or purchasing a home, you can be confident that you have found the appropriate person to share your life with.
In life, your partner just keeps denying you and refuses to recognise the good in you. Even if he or she truly loves you, the love will be misconstrued. You must recognise each other’s strengths and shortcomings in a relationship between a boyfriend and a girlfriend or a husband and a wife. If you constantly focus on the flaws, your relationship will deteriorate. I don’t believe such a person truly loves you under the guise of being good for you, mindlessly repressing you without finding any bright aspects in you. As they say, beauty is in the eyes of a lover, and even if the person is not perfect, she is perfect in his eyes. You must understand that someone who genuinely loves you understands how to praise you rather than blindly criticise you.
As the phrase goes, adversity sees the truth, and the person who genuinely loves you will undoubtedly provide a helping hand when you are in trouble because in her eyes, your business is her business too and there is no need to separate them from each other.
Even if it is tough to find someone who truly loves you in today’s materialistic society, there is no shortage of sincerity. If a girl or a boy truly cares about you and you love each other, you should handle the relationship well. Only in this way you can be happier in the foreseeable future.
